How often to you plan social sales calls? Do buyers see you as Mr. or Ms. Hard Sell? Are you always pushing for orders? Ever just relax with a customer or prospect?
It’s All About Relationship
People buy from people who they like and trust. Let’s unpack that statement. First of all people really buy from people. Whoa, you think: “What about the book I ordered from Amazon?” Well, OK, some smaller personal purchases we just buy. But what about a car or house? Would you buy one without human interaction? Even when you “buy” a car on line, there is a dealership involved. In the B2B world where I spent my career there was always a buyer involved.
People buy from salespeople they like. Maybe not always but when the buyer likes you it is much easier to get the information you need to close the sale. Plus if you find the buyer unpleasant you may just pass on selling to that company. Trust is everything. When there is not mutual trust closing the sale is impossible. Social sales calls allow the buyer and seller to build and strengthen relationship. They develop a “business friendship”. And we trust our friends.
Social Sales Calls?
What are social sales calls? Sharing a meal together. A golf outing. Attending a baseball game. Perhaps an evening cruise on your sailboat. These are meetings with your customer which are outside the office and build the strong personal relationship. True, some companies forbid this kind of activity between salesperson and buyer. I think that is short sighted. Good relationships benefit both parties. And I’ve never gotten an order from a customer because I bought them lunch or took them fishing. Good buyers place orders when it is in the best interest of their company….